Village grandmother from infertility. Why is going to grandmas a sin? Men find chronic prostatitis, women - chronic inflammation of the appendages. And the "travelling" begins
Troubles at work, child misbehaves, insomnia, does not add up personal life. “We need to go to the grandmother,” my friends advise, “she will speak some water, read a prayer, restore the energy field, and life will get better.”
Motivated by sorrows and sorrows, we understand that we cannot cope with our troubles on our own. We need the help of a more powerful force. This desire is natural for us. Man was created by God as the crown of all creation, lived in Paradise, was perfect and could communicate directly with the Lord. By the wiles of the devil, the first people succumbed to the temptation of sin and fell, having lost, in addition to the heavenly tabernacles, the possibility of Communion with God. The memory of the lost was forever reflected in the human subconscious in the form of a desire to find spiritual support, to find the Savior, Protector and Creator.
A modern person does not even realize that going to grandmothers is a sin, he is spiritually disoriented, does not see the difference between Christian and opposite concepts of Christianity, and begins to look for an easy way to get rid of troubles. It is here that the devil slips his next trick in the form of sorcerers, soothsayers, traditional healers and healers. A person does not understand that he is committing a sin and goes to healers, although even in the Old Testament it says “... Do not go to magicians, and do not bring yourself to defilement from them. I am the Lord your God" ().
What is meant by witchcraft?
Witchcraft or magic, however, like divination, quackery, healing, extrasensory perception, telepathy, clairvoyance, reiki, etc., is a set of certain actions, the purpose of which is communication and interaction with the lower forces of the demonic world. By attracting demonic forces, a person tries to solve his life problems, gain health, personal happiness, and financial well-being. Someone is trying to find out their future, someone is turning to the dark forces just out of curiosity or for company. Most of them do not even suspect whose “help” they are resorting to, who is actually behind the harmless at first glance grandmother healer or traditional healer. For some reason, it is customary to consider these forces to be impersonal, energies of nature that do not have their own consciousness, easily amenable to control by village healers or their urban psychic counterparts. But they are individuals, they are spirits, very cunning and immensely evil and hating the crown of Divine creation - man.
The devil is not harmless, he has the power to work miracles. Remember, in the Old Testament, the priests, like Moses, turned their rods into snakes? St. Irenaeus of Lyons wrote: "Satan is the ape of God." Yes, the devil can also repeat miracles, but the purpose of his miracles is to deceive and destroy a person, to take his soul. Christ said, “The thief comes only to steal, kill and destroy. I have come that they may have life and have it abundantly” (). Christ, healing the sick and raising the dead, did not do it just like that, for the sake of a miracle. His deeds were aimed at correcting a person, at his repentance and turning to God. He wanted everyone to be saved.
The devil wants to steal something from us, to destroy us. His goal is not health, not financial well-being, etc., but the soul. If you put the soul of a person and the very requests with which he goes to grandmothers on the scales, then the request itself will not cost anything compared to the soul. The devil knows this and is therefore ready to give at least all the riches of the world, if only a person would give the most valuable thing - the soul. Remember how the devil tempted Christ in the wilderness, offering him power over all earthly kingdoms, in return for worshiping himself, “and the devil said to him: I will give you power over all these kingdoms and their glory, for it is given to me, and I give it to whomever I want. her; so if You bow down to me, then everything will be Yours. Jesus answered him, Get away from Me, Satan; It is written: Worship the Lord your God, and serve Him alone.
Turning to the devil gives him the right not only to the soul of a person, but also to life, as a result of which he finds himself in a situation even worse than he was.
The only source of salvation for man is the Lord, only to Him should our prayers for help be addressed. The pledge of salvation is sincere repentance, life in accordance with the commandments, and the communion of the Sacraments of the Church. But it is always worth remembering that the Lord may not answer your prayer with immediate healing. This does not happen because He does not hear you or does not want to help you. It's just that He knows that the help provided at this very moment will not benefit you. He foresees that, having been healed bodily, you will forget about spiritual healing. Having got rid of ailments, you will certainly return to your former life full of sin. The Lord is patiently waiting for the moment when His help will have beneficial consequences. One must always remember that God allows only that evil that will certainly turn into good.
If a person, not understanding all the subsequent gravity of sin, nevertheless turned to a sorcerer, healer, psychic, etc., but then regretted it, he needs to confess his sin as soon as possible, sincerely repent and hope for the help of the Lord.
THE FIRST CHILD CANNOT BE SAVE
Munira met her future husband Timur when she was 20. The young people got married almost immediately. Everything went on as usual - for complete happiness, only a small pink-cheeked toddler was missing.
For several years, Munira tried to get pregnant, constantly went to hospitals, regularly drank hormones. But the miracle never happened. And in 2000, a real black streak began - Timur was diagnosed with a brain tumor.
Operation and long (almost six years) rehabilitation. All this time, Munira did not leave her husband a single step, put droppers, gave injections, fed him with a spoon. In the end, strong woman I managed to get my husband back on his feet. But the happiness of motherhood remained a pipe dream for her. Neither a trip to the sea, nor grandmother healers, nor even doctors helped.
At the next, probably hundredth appointment, the doctor, tired of stuffing me with hormones, rashly told me that I would never have children, - Munira recalls. “But apparently I was wrong. A year later I got pregnant.
It looks like wings have sprouted from behind. Out of harm's way, Munira even lay down for conservation. But someone upstairs was clearly testing the woman for strength.
At the 19th week, she began to bleed, and the doctors failed to save the child. Moreover, the life of Munira herself was in danger: during the cleaning, the doctor brought an infection, and, in simple terms, the insides began to rot.
Doctor Anna Bykova, a specialist in the perinatal center, literally came out of me then, - the woman recalls through tears. “What would have happened to me without her, I can’t imagine ...
GIRLFRIEND GAVE BIRTH "FOR THE COMPANY"
After losing a child, Munira decided to start over.
In September 2008, a friend told me that in the Arkhangelsk region there is a grandmother who treats many diseases, - says Munira. “Oh, it was, it wasn’t,” I thought. And for the company I persuaded a colleague, Olya Overchenko, to go with me. She already had a child, but she still couldn’t get pregnant for the second time - she suffered for nine years.
The glade in front of the healer's house was full of people. It's no joke, I had to sit in line for 16 hours!
The mistress of the house is a seemingly ordinary grandmother. A colorful dress, a scarf on her head, she speaks Russian poorly. And she didn’t do anything special - she put Munira on the sofa, crushed her stomach, whispered prayers. The "treatment" session took about fifteen minutes. Olya came in next - and just as quickly left. Not hoping for a miracle, the women went home.
Life took its course. A month later, Munira realized that she was pregnant!
At first I didn't believe it! Olya immediately called. And can you imagine, it turned out that she is also expecting a baby. We were both shocked! After all, Olya had no children for nine years, and I had 13! Everyone at work gasped when they heard the news! Munira smiles.
Soon a healthy Danis was born to the 35-year-old Munira. 30-year-old Olya gave birth to a daughter, Sophia.
To be honest, I don’t know who helped me more - the doctors or that grandmother. But this is a fact - both I and Olya became pregnant after visiting a healer. Probably, it was still help from above, - Munira is sure.
BEHIND: PLACEBO EFFECT?
Deputy Minister of Health, gynecologist Alexander Afanasiev:
Of course, there are cases when women, after being diagnosed with infertility, after some time were able to become pregnant and give birth to a healthy child. Medicine cannot explain everything. After such a diagnosis is made, time passes, some factors change - it all affects the physical state women and she can get pregnant. It is quite possible that after visiting that healer grandmother, the placebo effect played a role in the woman. In general, no matter how many years have passed, there is no need to lose hope and calm down.
VS: DON'T FIND THE CHARLATANS!
Reproductologist at the clinic "Women's Health" Elena Lozova:
If a married couple who is sexually active regularly does not become pregnant within a year, doctors may diagnose infertility. But over time, everything can change - sometimes suggestion helps. Perhaps that grandmother is a good psychotherapist. It may be worth going to such healers, but within reason. You should be especially careful if they take a lot of money or prescribe some kind of “treatment” on their own.
Yaroslav, Vanechka, Zdenek, Diana, Akhmat, Natasha, Anne-Marie, Nikolai, Charles, Zinaida, Alexandra, Eugene, Svyatoslav, Kurt ... To list the names of all the children who were born thanks to grandmother Biraya, you will need more than one newspaper page. There are more than 100 of them - children speaking different languages, living in different countries. These children are united by the fact that they were born to women who were diagnosed with "infertility" by doctors.“Hadji-Odzha Biraye” is how happy mothers address 72-year-old Biraya Shirinskaya, and for their children she is simply “grandmother Biraye”. “Respected teacher Biraye” is called by the locals, and they will not fail to enter the house and steal her photo or secretly take a picture of the mistress of the quiet cozy home in the Old Crimea.
- For some reason, people believe that my photo is a talisman against the evil eye, from diseases and evil people- Biraye Gafurovna smiles. - They take it home. And then they hide them: the Orthodox - behind the icon in the holy corner, the Muslims - folded into a small triangle, sewn into a piece of leather and worn on the chest. Yes, and let them take it away, since they believe that it will help them.
Grandmother Biraye respectfully lowers her palms to the old Koran, lightly strokes the book, raises her hands:
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Biraye sighs heavily and continues the story:
- I don’t know if this is a gift or a curse, but it’s very difficult - as soon as I fly someone, then I feel bad, as if my strength had left me.
Biraye found out about her gift by chance, it was in 1985. Then she worked as a teacher of Russian language and literature.
- Zinaida Gorokhovskaya, a teacher at our school, became seriously ill and was paralyzed for 35 days, - says Biraye Gafurovna. The doctors said she would never be able to walk. My colleagues and I visited her from time to time. And then one day, looking at the torment of Zinochka, I sat down by her bed, put my hands on her immobilized body, began to cry and, not remembering myself, read the prayer “Nur” at the top of my voice. And Zina got up ...
After this story, rumors spread around the city, and apprehensively, since the times were Soviet, the afflicted reached Biray ...
Not only people who have lost hope and faith in doctors, but also the poor and the homeless go to “Grandma Biraya for help”. Because they know that Haji-Odzha Biraye distributes everything that is left for her treatment: both food and money.
- And why do I need money and food that people bring - I get a pension, enough to live on, - the mistress of the house smiles. - And taking people for help is haram, that is, a mortal sin. Saint Ali said: "Greed makes people dead, but faith makes them alive." So I live according to him.
Pregnancy is the greatest happiness in the life of every family. The birth of a child is an event that completely changes the vector of parents' behavior, makes them be more attentive and sensitive, support each other and learn to interact at a new level.
Unfortunately, sometimes some families have problems conceiving, despite the fact that both are healthy and already fully prepared for this step. After numerous attempts, many couples give up. In vain. There are many ways to help fulfill the dream and give the world a new little man.
Grandmothers are not in vain associated with wisdom and experience, since it is this person who can give the most valuable worldly advice. We have collected all the methods of successful conception respected and revered among the people, so that you can be sure: with such an arsenal of tools, you will definitely succeed!
Many women who are trying to cope with adversity at home come to the conclusion how important it is to organize correct menu and supply your body with all the substances necessary for bearing the fetus.
Fats
For conception, a woman needs a little more fat than for normal daily activities. Fatty acids are found in foods such as:
- fish: salmon, herring;
- vegetable oil: olive, linseed;
- nuts;
- dairy products;
- dairy products.
It is widely believed that in many countries, in the process of preparing for the conception of a child, it is customary to eat buckwheat, since it contains a large amount useful substances and different groups of vitamins. Among other things, this cereal is excellent prevention against anemia. 
To get the desired result, you need to use buckwheat correctly - this is done without milk. The fact is that dairy products contain calcium, which prevents the body from absorbing iron from buckwheat. As an alternative dish, grandmothers are advised to eat pancakes made from buckwheat flour. 
In the diet of a woman, it is imperative to add green vegetables, as well as:
- cabbage;
- carrot;
- turnip.
Coarse fiber, which is found in large quantities in root crops, cannot be absorbed by the body, but is used to remove harmful components. Green vegetables significantly improve the body, which contributes to faster conception.
Herbal infusions
In many cases, a long-awaited pregnancy does not occur because there is a lack of vitamin E in the woman's body. In order to cope with this problem, it is necessary to drink a decoction of rose petals and tincture of sea buckthorn. A large number of folk recipes offers women decoctions of sage and plantain. However, herbs require an extremely careful attitude. It is best to consult a doctor before use. 
There is such a plant as upland or forest uterus. Among the positive effects that this herb has, one can indicate the improvement of the ovaries, the preparation of the uterus for pregnancy, the elimination of inflammation. 
The upland uterus is approved and modern medicine, which uses folk remedy to fight gynecological diseases, infertility, toxicosis and many other ailments. A significant advantage of the plant is that its use does not have negative consequences for the female body. To promote conception, it is necessary to use an infusion from the hog uterus. 
Ingredients:
- grass - 100 grams;
- 70% alcohol - 1 liter.
Step-by-step instruction:
- put the grass in a container;
- fill with alcohol;
- cover with a lid;
- we insist for thirty days;
- shake the tincture every day;
- take a tincture of 40 drops daily.
When conceiving, do not underestimate the importance of the correct position of the bodies of future parents. This helps much more effectively than artificial means like douches or hygienic soap, which violate the internal microenvironment of the female body.
After intercourse, you should not immediately get up. There are several actions that are recommended to be carried out after sex:
- lie on your side;
- lift your legs high and stand on the "birch";
- stand on all fours.
A partner is usually involved in observing these rules. Of course, this will not have any effect for him, but it will be fun and not offensive for a woman to indulge in these amusements alone. Plus, a loved one can help keep your feet under right angle because after physical activity so great is the temptation to "cheat" a little. 
No need to pretend to be a gymnast and stretch your legs painfully - just take a position in which the sperm cannot flow out.
Other Features
flower energy
Proven by years and experience that houseplants, located in rooms in which people spend a lot of time, have a tremendous impact on the state of the body. 
If you want to get pregnant as soon as possible, put a ficus in your bedroom and start caring for him as if he were a small and defenseless child. As a thank you, the plant will produce special substances that:
- relieve irritability and aggression;
- contribute to calm and tranquility;
- give determination and determination.
Wise experts from the people say that it is in this state that you need to be in order to finally conceive a baby. In addition, caring for a flower increases the level of "maternal" hormones, which is critical in such a period. Instead of ficus indoors, you can put geranium, since its oils have a beneficial effect on the female body.
Talismans
In order to speed up conception, you can help yourself gain confidence with the help of special amulets. According to legend, amulets made of diamond, amethyst, topaz and emerald bring the long-awaited pregnancy closer and keep mom from the evil eye. 
From plants to amulets include:
- bark of fruit trees;
- cloves are mottled.
There are legends that if a girl, desperately wanting to give birth, touches the things of a pregnant woman or tries them on herself, then soon the couple will be able to conceive. The same effect is obtained from stroking the belly of a woman bearing a child. Many folk sages convince that for greater effectiveness, you still need to sit in the place where the expectant mother was sitting.
It is believed that such an innocent act as the purchase of an element of children's wardrobe will contribute to conception. You can buy a hat or socks, it is not essential. The main thing is to always carry a little thing with you. Thus, dreams take on a material form and thoughts are concentrated on the feeling that the baby is already there.
Many mothers claim that a family trip to the south contributed to the conception of a baby. Even specialists who treat couples for infertility recommend going to the seashore, changing the climate, having a good rest and focusing on the most important thing.
There is a very famous and effective sign associated with homeless animals. According to her, you need to take home a kitten or dog. However, not any animal will do, but only the one that has "nailed" to you. You need to treat him very gently and reverently. Otherwise, the method will not work.
When a woman fails to get pregnant, she usually hears the same advice - try to distract yourself. Despite the apparent simplicity, this is a very valuable recommendation, because sometimes desires need to be let go. As soon as you manage to turn your attention to something else, the chance of getting pregnant will increase significantly. 
In addition, it is very important to maintain a positive attitude and drive bad thoughts away from yourself. The fact is that negativity inhibits the functioning of the reproductive system and creates a negative atmosphere around. Listen to fun music, watch comedies, go out more.
Great value for future pregnancy play rituals that are performed in the process of marriage. Firstly, it is very important that among the invitees there is a pregnant girl and a mother with a small child. According to legend, if you hold the baby on your lap on your wedding day, you will soon be able to give birth to your baby. Secondly, you need to choose the most beautiful ribbon and tie it on a fruit tree.
In order for a child to choose a woman as his mother, she must implement the motherhood program as much as possible even before the conception of the crumbs. It is best to refrain from using cosmetics and wearing vulgar, defiant clothing. You need to stop cursing. This does not suit any girl, and especially a future mother.
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